How do I know it's the one?
That age old question, how will I know its the one? I mean, how long is a piece of string, this is the unanswerable question of all unanswerable questions right?
Well, all I can tell you is that there are many different answers to the question, just because it happened that way for your bestie, it might not happen that way for you, there are no right or wrong answers when it comes to knowing if it’s THE ONE!
Quiet simply One will different to all the rest. After trying on one or two or maybe you’ve got to dress number 10 (although highly recommend you don’t get to dress number 10) and this dress will just feel different, there are no words to describe how and why it feels different, it just does. It feels right.
You might feel excited, you might even cry but the key to finding THE ONE is that you absolutely must trust your instincts. It doesn’t matter what I think, what your friends and family think, all that matters is how you feel and your friends and family should love it because you chose it, they should give you the space to make your own decision. I absolutely will not let you buy a dress that you do not look amazing it, I’ve said it before and I’ll probably say it a million times more, I want your wedding photos and want you to be walking down that aisle looking your absolute most confident and beautiful self.
When you stand in front of that mirror, wearing that dress, with all the accessories, maybe even a little bouquet for full effect, the reflection you see should feel like you. You should be able to look in that mirror and see yourself on your wedding day, see yourself walking down the aisle, see yourself having your photos taken, doing your first dance and all those other elements of your wedding day with your brand new shiny husband or wife. You should already be excited to wear her again even though you haven’t yet taken her off, your mind should then be whizzing around with hairstyle and make up ideas, plans for hair accessories and what shoes you will wear.
You might want to take some time and come back to you later, but if any one of these happen during your bridal appointment or maybe all of them happen, I can promise you, you are onto a winner!
All my love
Victoria x
